Six Ways to Make People Like you.If you want people to like you......
Rule 1.)Become Genuinely Interested in other people
-"Do this and you will be welcomed anywhere"
-"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you"
-"ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering"
Rule 2.)Smile
-"Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, "I like you. You make me happy. I'm glad to see you,"
-"You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile."
-"It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends."
I think smiling is something very important and something we should do everyday.Even when you don't feel like smiling express yourself in a positive way it will make you feel better and people will look back at you with a smile. It turns all negative to positive with just a simple smile. You don't really have to think so much to smile it naturally comes, smiling can also make other people happy.
Rule 3.) Remember Names
-" A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
-" If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble."
Remembering a name is very important because you don't know when your going to need to call that person, or going to need help from that person, but if you don't know there name it can bring sadness or trouble but if you do remember there name then it will bring joy because if you ever bump into that old friend you went to school you would have to remember there name.
Rule 4.)Be good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves
-" If you aspire to be good conversationalist, be and attentive listener."
-"Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problem."
Always be a good listener at all times whether its boring or don't want to talk always be attentive of what people are are saying listening is a key to all effective communication. You never know if your going to need to know what your learning about that person or going to need there advice.listening can help you learn new information, you can find it easier to get along with others, you can avoid misunderstanding,It is essential for business success. Always be a good listener.
Rule 5.) Talk in terms of the other man's interest
-"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most."
Rule 6.)Make the other person feel important..and do it sincerely.
-"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature."(John Dewey)"Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."
